SEX v. LOVE: I thought Potemra's point was that society conflated love and sex, and that the movie asks a question that sexual liberalism can't answer: is it OK to act against your impulses. (And if society can't answer that question, maybe its answer to the flip-side, when is it OK to act on your impulses, is suspect as well. More important: this film does not seem to have gunfire and loud explosions. This is what I crave.